Between the Sheets: Writers Revealed (take 1) *and free books!
Memoir. That word conjures words and elicits conversation: James Frey, unlimited access, trend, major book deals, alcoholic mothers and unavailable fathers, pretty girls who couldn’t fit into their Chloe jeans. Even though memoirs have been en vogue for recent years, writers have always been fixated on that one compelling subject: the self. Virginia Woolf claimed that a memoir is akin to a bowl that one keeps filling. And although there are a slew of popular, tragic memoirs regaling tales of the sorority girl gone wrong, there are countless complicated and compelling stories written by some of today’s most promising writers, whose memoirs start a dialogue beyond all the chatter mentioned above. Because although their story is their own, the subject matter: war, family and loss are words that people understand and can relate to. So a writer goes about their business, writing about a certain slice of their life and they see that novel through the business of publication.
But what happens after the final page has been written and subsequently read? Because although a life can be neatly packed into 300 odd pages of prose, a life off the page continues, and for the first three guests on my new radio show – BETWEEN THE SHEETS: WRITERS REVEALED – their memoir was only just the beginning.
On Sunday, May 20th, 7PM EST, I’ll be chatting with three authors: Maggie Nelson, Danielle Trussoni & Janice Erlbaum about what happens when the book tour is over and real life begins. Listen to their incredible stories about the events that happened after their books were written. Later this week, I’ll post links here to the show page on nowlive.com and widgets/buttons you can post on websites, etc. Meanwhile, I’m offering up 2 copies of Erlbaum’s Girlbomb, 2 copies of The Red Parts and 3 copies Trussoni’s Falling through the Earth to folks who leave questions for the authors in the comments section of this post. Do you have a question for one of the authors? All of them? Burning questions about memoirs, in general? Let me know what you’re thinking…The five questions I use will receive a copy of one of the books, gratis!
Now…on to the books…
BEYOND THE BOOK 5.20.07 7PM EST
MAGGIE NELSON, Author of Jane: A Murder & The Red Parts: One day in March 1969, twenty-three- year-old Jane Mixer was on her way home to tell her parents she was getting married. She had arranged for a ride through the campus bulletin board at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor, where she was one of a handful of pioneering women students at the law school. Her body was found the following morning just inside the gates of a small cemetery fourteen miles away, shot twice in the head and strangled. Six other young women were murdered around the same time, and it was assumed they had all been victims of alleged serial killer John Collins, who was convicted of one of these crimes not long after. Jane Mixer’s death was long considered to be one of the infamous Michigan Murders, as they had come to be known. But officially, Jane’s murder remained unsolved, and Maggie Nelson grew up haunted by the possibility that the killer of her mother’s sister was still at large. In an instance of remarkable serendipity, more than three decades later, a 2004 DNA match led to the arrest of a new suspect for Jane’s murder at precisely the same time that Nelson was set to publish a book of poetry about her aunt’s life and death. The Red Parts chronicles the uncanny series of events that led to Nelson’s interest in her aunt’s death, the reopening of the case, the bizarre and brutal trial that ensued, and the effects these events had on the disparate group of people they brought together.
The result is a stark, fiercely intelligent, and beautifully written memoir that poses vital questions about America’s complex relationship to spectacles of violence and suffering, and that scrupulously explores the limits and possibilities of honesty, grief, empathy, and justice.
Click here to read an Interview with Maggie Nelson
JANICE ERLBAUM, Author of Girlbomb: Erlbaum, a columnist for Bust, left her Manhattan home at 15 after her mother reunited with Erlbaum’s abusive stepfather. Landing first in a shelter and then a group home, Erlbaum—shattered by her mother’s choice—embarks on a treacherous course of self-destruction. Casual sex with a series of brutally uncaring boys coupled with daily drug and alcohol abuse become her antidote to the violence and racism in the child-welfare system housing her. Her isolation and loneliness threaten to swallow her whole. Yet when Erlbaum’s mother invites her home (the dreaded stepfather gone for good), things don’t improve. Erlbaum has more freedom, which allows more opportunity for trouble. At 17 she leaves again (this time to live with an older boyfriend), becomes addicted to the cocaine so plentiful in the 1980s New York club scene and nearly dies from an overdose. Through Erlbaum’s adolescence, she often seems a willing victim. In her chaotic senior year of high school, she begins writing stories, attempting to put the life she’s been living into perspective. Her memoir (comparable to Koren Zailckas’s Smashed) reads like a neorealist novel. Sharp yet poignant, raw and vivid, it illumines the dirty underside of American girlhood and brings it to harrowing life.
-Publisher’s Weekly Review
Click here to read an Interview with Janice Erlbaum
Click here to read an excerpt from Janice Erlbaum’s memoir
DANIELLE TRUSSONI, Author of Falling Through the Earth: From her father, Danielle Trussoni learned rock and roll, how to avoid the cops, and never to shy away from a fight. Growing up, she was fascinated by stories of his adventures as a tunnel rat in Vietnam, where he risked his life crawling headfirst into holes to search for American POWs held underground. Ultimately, Danielle came to believe that when the man she adored drank too much, beat up strangers, or mistreated her mother, it was because the horror of those tunnels still lived inside him. Eventually her mom gave up and left, taking all the kids except one: Danielle. When everyone else walked away and washed their hands of Dan Trussoni, Danielle would not. Now she tells their story.
As Danielle trails her father through nights at Roscoe’s Vogue Bar, scores of wild girlfriends, and years of bad dreams, a vivid and poignant portrait of a father-daughter relationship unlike any other emerges. Although the Trussonis are fiercely committed to each other, theirs is a love story filled with anger, stubbornness, outrageous behavior, and battle scars that never completely heal.








May 14th, 2007 at 5:56 am
Her trip to Viet Nam in FALLING THROUGH THE EARTH totally intrigued me. Those tunnel stories made me nervous and claustrophobic – incredible story! My uncle was stationed in Saigon in the ’60’s – now I have a better understanding of his constant edginess when we saw him home on leave. If I could ask Danielle anything – I guess it would be – WHO and WHY was that Viet Namese guy following her???
(How exciting to be interviewing these 3! Soon you’ll be in their circle… I’ll have to pick up the other 2 books.)
Tracie
May 14th, 2007 at 1:45 pm
Tracie,
That irked me too!!! I was wondering if it was a metaphor, but there was indeed a real guy!
Cheers, f.
May 15th, 2007 at 11:16 am
They all sound so good! I’ll be putting them on my library list (which is so long as to be intimidating right now). No questions at the moment, though – but thank you for the opportunity!
May 15th, 2007 at 8:20 pm
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May 16th, 2007 at 10:19 am
With all of the upheaval in her life, how did Janice discover writing–as an outlet–as a talent?
May 18th, 2007 at 7:50 am
I’ve only read “Girlbomb” but the others have been placed on my reading list…
I think my question would be appropriate for all three writers –
“What makes a survivor?” While the first book relates the events of someone who did not survive, those surrounding the victim did in fact continue their lives.
For Danielle and Janice – I was raised without ever knowing my father and had very strong feelings about what the role of “father” meant. Should either woman have children, what sort of father would they hope their own children would have??
Thanks – Silvia
May 20th, 2007 at 7:22 pm
Fascinating listening to these women talk about their books. I’ve added all of them to my Amazon wish list.
Danielle mentioned that it’s important to portray yourself as honestly (and sometimes harshly) as you portray others in a memoir. I wonder how difficult it was for the authors to really portray themselves in sometimes less-than-appealing lights for the integrity of the story, and how they went about doing that? I know how hard it can be sometimes to see yourself in an honest light, especially when it can often be extremely personal or embarrassing.
May 20th, 2007 at 8:03 pm
Excellent show Felicia! I thoroughly enjoyed it. I know what I’ll be doing every Sunday night – for sure:)
If the authors read this – thank you for sharing with all of us. It was really great and I am looking forward to reading your books – these and future ones.
May 21st, 2007 at 3:18 pm
Violence against women, the lasting trauma of war, and domestic abuse are three wounds that have affected many Americans, and while we may agree that they are all perpetuated by aspects of our society, they are all problems which individuals are expected to bear, more or less on their own, and in some cases, in silence. Alice Sebold writes of her own and many others’ trauma, “You save yourself, or you remain unsaved.” What do the authors think of the American propensity to expect individuals alone to solve problems brought about by the culture at large? For Janice’s volunteer work at her old shelter, and for Danielle and Maggie if you have done or considered something similar, do you see this as playing a part in helping to share responsibility for healing these wounds, beyond the individuals directly affected?
May 21st, 2007 at 6:44 pm
Melinda,
Such a terrific question! I’ll email you shortly!
Cheers, Felicia
June 10th, 2007 at 10:04 am
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